Toilet Training
Every child learns to use the toilet when they are ready. For most children this is around two or three years of age. While your child is learning, be positive and calm. Never punish or blame a child when they have an accident.
Your child may be ready for toilet training when they:
- Can tell you when they need to go.
- Can follow simple instructions.
- Can stay dry for a few hours.
- Can pull their pants up and down without your help.
When your child is ready:
- Help your child get used to the bathroom. Talk about the toilet and read books about using the toilet. Encourage your child to sit on the potty as long as they want.
- Develop a routine. Take your child to the bathroom at regular times (e.g., after meals and before bedtime).
- Encourage your child to tell you when they need to go to the bathroom.
- Make potty time relaxing and pleasant by staying with your child, reading books, and singing songs.
- Teach your child how to wipe from front to back and wash their hands.
- After a few successful trips, give your child some cotton underwear and encourage them to keep them dry. Make sure your child knows how excited you are with how well they are doing.
Tips for parents and caregivers:
- Remember all children will be ready to toilet train at different times. If training is not going well, try taking a break and trying again in three to six months.
- It usually takes longer to stay dry overnight than during the day.
- Children may start wetting themselves again when dealing with a change such as a move or a new baby.