Eating Disorders

What should I do if I suspect a student has an eating disorder?

If you suspect that a student may have an eating disorder, it is important to speak to their parents (you can include the student if it is appropriate) about your concern. It is vital that students receive the help and support they need if they have an eating disorder. Remember to be aware the parent or guardian(s) may not recognize that there is an issue or may feel guilty, blamed, or responsible for the child's issue or disorder. This is important to keep in mind when communicating your concerns. Parents can request a referral from their family doctor to access the Eating Disorder Program available at Hotel Dieu Hospital in Kingston, Ontario.

Research has shown that teaching students about eating disorders may be harmful, as some students may come to glamorize disturbed eating behaviours. Discussion of eating disorders is best done in the context of mental health disorders, as part of the mental health curriculum.

It is best to teach students about healthy eating, active living, self-acceptance, media literacy skills, how to cope with weight, and shape teasing.

Focus on:

• telling the parent or family your concern for the student and providing specific examples of factual observations about the student's behaviour of concern,
• ensuring that you show empathy and support for the family and student,
• establishing a positive, open and supportive relationship with the family,
• considering any cultural or social issues that may make it hard for the parents or families to discuss issues, and
• providing the parent or guardian with access to support and information on available resources.

Try to avoid:

• interpreting what the behaviour could mean or making a diagnosis,
• assuming the parent or guardian is already aware of the observed behaviours,
• interrupting, judging or making pronouncements or promises during the discussion,
• persisting with the discussion if it is not going well or turning into an argument, or
• placing blame or judging the parent or guardian.

Although more common in females, eating disorders affect both males and females.

Some of the signs and symptoms of eating disorders include:

• excess concern about weight, shape and calories,
• noticeable weight loss, frequent weight fluctuation,
• strict avoidance of certain foods or unusual eating habits, and
• feeling guilty about eating or not eating with others around.

It is important to remember that an eating disorder is a mental health condition, and can affect individuals of all shapes and sizes.